Title:
Lies, Death and the Sex Shop Alibi: A story of surviving false accusations and fighting for the truth.
Hello, I'm Alexander Economou. In 2013, I was falsely accused of rape by Eleanor de Freitas. Strong evidence proved my innocence, but she killed herself before her trial for perverting the course of justice. Her father, David de Freitas then went to the press, making a series of false statements. When I protested, I was charged with 'harassment' - but was found not guilty. Ten years on, David de Freitas and his feminist campaigners persist in publishing misinformation, and why I wrote this blog.
Title:
Lies, Death and the Sex Shop Alibi: A story of surviving false accusations and fighting for the truth.
For many years, Mr de Freitas has maintained that his daughter would "never lie" and has campaigned tirelessly for her "justice."
Even now, a decade later, he continues to assert that his daughter's allegation was true, while falsely insinuating that I raped her. These accusations are relentless and ongoing.
It’s important to note that it was Mr de Freitas who first approached the press and decided to make this a public matter. I only gave a single interview to defend myself, after receiving death threats on the back of his press campaign. Beyond that, I maintain this blog solely to counter his ongoing campaign of misinformation.
While Mr de Freitas has every right to advocate for greater awareness around mental health issues, it’s another matter entirely for him to falsely and repeatedly claim, that his daughter was raped.
What Mr de Freitas has not shared with the press is that, in February 2012, nine months before accusing me, Eleanor falsely accused him of abuse in a report to the police.
This fact is substantiated by evidence from Eleanor's inquest, which includes medical records showing that she was 'sectioned' after making false reports of abuse against her parents and her landlord. See here:
Evidence showed the manager of Ann Summers (a sex shop) also said she observed us together and noted we appeared to be a happy couple and relaxed, with no signs of Eleanor being "held captive" or "under duress" - directly contradicting her account. Other expert witnesses confirmed the reliability of the phone reports which showed text messages, and the cctv.
There was also 'bad character' evidence showing a history of dishonest behaviour, including theft and a prior false rape allegation against another man (for which she was not prosecuted). She had also made false police reports against her own parents in 2012, making at least two prior false allegations before her claims against me.
Despite this, she maintained her allegation against me for months, persistently emailing the police to push for my re-arrest and spreading her false claims among mutual friends.
Overall, the evidence against her was overwhelming. These factors are why the CPS, the Director of Public Prosecutions, the Attorney General, and the High Court have all ruled in my favour.
Paragraph 5 of the order says:
"The CPS here had medical evidence, including that which was relied on by those representing the deceased, which did not identify any real or immediate risk to life. No representations were made to the CPS, in the days immediately proceeding her death, to the effect that her condition was worsening and that the prosecution was endangering her life. In those circumstances it is not arguable that there was any such beach of an obligation as is alleged in this ground".
The Order can be found on pages 3 and 4 of this pdf
https://alexander-economou.docdroid.com/F59eyl5/2016331-permission-for-a-jr-refused-pdf#page=3
This also concurs with the Director of Public Prosecutions who has also said in her statement that:
Even at the very early stages of the prosecution, myself and my lawyers took the public interest stage very seriously.
Please find letter from my lawyers to Ms de Freitas lawyers in 2013, saying that her mental health was paramount importance, when considering the public interest of the prosecution.
https://alexander-economou.docdroid.com/tFIrH7s/2013915-emm-considering-edf-mental-health-pdf
Three months later, the case was taken over by the CPS, in December 2013, and that decision to continue the prosecution was taken by:
Sarah Maclaren - Head of RASSO (Rape and serious sexual assault unit at the CPS)
Jenny Hopkins - Deputy Chief Crown Prosecutor for London
Alison Levitt QC - Legal adviser to the DPP at the time.
It's crucial to understand that the decision to prosecute Ms. de Freitas was made by a group of highly experienced lawyers, who were senior officials within the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS), and experts on rape cases, who meticulously examined the evidence and firmly believed that Ms. de Freitas had lied.
Please find letters from the CPS, confirming of all of this, here:
https://alexander-economou.docdroid.com/SBOQzz6/2013-r-v-eleanor-de-freitas-cps-letters-pdf
They also carefully considered her mental health before concluding that the prosecution should proceed. This case was then reviewed, a year later in 2014, by Alison Saunders, the then Director of Public Prosecutions (DPP), who, after assessing all the facts, issued a statement supporting the CPS's decision.
Here, we have a clear example of women (not men) at the highest levels of the CPS and the DPP, all of whom found the evidence against Ms. de Freitas compelling enough to warrant prosecution, and believed that she lied about being raped. There was no cover up, no misogyny, or anything thing like that.
Then the Attorney General made his own statement which can be found here in 2018:
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/no-independent-inquiry-into-the-prosecution-of-eleanor-de-freitas
To summarise:
According to David de Freitas, and his campaigners, the following people are wrong:
The only people that David de Freitas (and his feminist entourage) aligns themselves with are the following:
https://www.economou.legal/2019/12/corrupt-police-officer-julian-king.html
and here:
https://www.economou.legal/2018/08/metropolitan-police-pay-compensation.html
Further, it must be empathised that the police did not see all the evidence, in the case against Ms de Freitas because they refused to investigate. The DPP said in her statement (back in 2014) the following concerning the police:
Find this quote here, in the DPP's statement
Conclusion:
Back in November 2014, Mr de Freitas brought this story to the press saying there was "no evidence" his daughter lied, and even now, ten years later, his lies are ongoing.
The only reason this blog exists is to counter the lies and misrepresentations of David de Freitas and his fellow campaigners Lisa Avalos, Harriet Wistrich and others on the same bandwagon of misinformation. I would much rather have no blog, but this saga of misinformation seems to be never endling.
And thus the blog is updated and kept online. Not my choice, more of necessity, as no one else is going to be publishing the truth, or fight my corner.
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Royal Courts of Justice, London, England. |
In November 2014, after Eleanor’s death and during David de Freitas’s media campaign, I informed him through his lawyer, Harriet Wistrich—that Eleanor’s legal team had tried to negotiate a plea deal with the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) one week before her trial.
At the time, David de Freitas was publicly accusing me of rape. I was trying to defend myself and prove my innocence by showing that Eleanor had lied. Unfortunately, Ms. Wistrich responded by accusing me of lying about the plea bargain. I didn’t have the evidence to prove otherwise, at least not then.
Now, I do.
For context, Eleanor was charged with “Perverting the Course of Justice,” a serious offence—rightly so, given the circumstances. There’s a lesser charge, “Wasting Police Time,” typically used in minor cases like prank calls to the police. Those cases are usually handled in Magistrates’ Court, where the penalties are less severe.
When someone makes false accusations against a specific person, or does so repeatedly, the CPS tends to pursue the more serious charge - Perverting the Course of Justice - as they did in Eleanor’s case.
Ten years later, in May 2024, I contacted the prosecuting barrister from Eleanor’s trial with some unrelated questions about misuse of trial documents that had come to my attention. During our exchange, he confirmed that Eleanor’s solicitor had asked whether the CPS would accept a guilty plea to the lesser charge of Wasting Police Time. Here’s the email:
Click here to see the email regarding the guilty plea request.
This is important for two reasons. First, Harriet Wistrich—representing David de Freitas—has publicly denied this ever happened. Second, it raises a key question: did Eleanor’s own legal team believe her story? If they were confident in her version of events, why offer a plea to a lesser charge at all?
The prosecuting counsel also noted that the CPS rejected the offer. However, he couldn’t say for certain whether the idea came from Eleanor herself or from her solicitor.
In October 2012 I started to become friends with Eleanor de Freitas. I had known her cousin Lizzie Noel for years. We began to chat daily on Facebook messenger and by December 2012 we had exchanged over 500 messages. In all that time she appeared to be a completely normal and fun person, there was nothing out of the ordinary. She was intelligent and previously a straight 'A' student. She was assertive, independent and confident.
On December 22nd 2012 she sent me text messages insisting that we meet for a "massage session" even though I was apprehensive. She told me to "change my sheets" and that we would have "croissants in bed together" the next day.
The next day she came round to my flat and we had some lunch and I accompanied her whilst she did her Christmas shopping. We came back later that afternoon to my flat where we chatted for hours and hours. She called her father and told him where she was (as she was living with her parents at the time). We later had consensual sex that evening and she stayed the night. We were not drunk, we had one small (300ml) bottle of cider each. Not even enough to be over the drink drive limit.
We woke up and had some breakfast, we were getting on amazingly well. She was only meant to come over for lunch (the day before) but now we had been together for almost 24hrs. We were playing music and she was dancing around my living room. (I later learned she messaged a mutual friend that morning and told him she had "huge fun" with me). At 1130am we went shopping to Ann Summers, a shop which sells sex toys. We joked about getting a vibrating egg and during the shopping trip she bought no less than £340 of sex aids whilst I watched.
The excessive shopping trip caused me some concern and also the night before she told me she had depression (even though she seemed the exact opposite to me). I started to have my suspicions she might be a prostitute. At around 6pm that evening I did some searches online and found out she was indeed an escort. It was all a bit to much for me.
She called me up around 7pm after having sent me some very strange text messages. It was only minutes after I found out she was an escort. I did not know what to think. I had a bad gut feeling about her since the Ann Summers shopping trip and decided to end things there and then. I felt manipulated and told her not to contact me.
I did not realise that this sudden rejection, after a night of passion, would set her off on a spiral of revenge. And so the "snow ball effect" began. First she began to tell people that I "upset her", and slowly, slowly, the lies snowballed into more serious allegations, and eventually a rape allegation.
Later that evening I saw some bizarre Facebook posts. On 26th December her cousin sent me messages accusing me of having done something awful to Eleanor. On 29th December her mother called me to ask what had happened? I answered all her questions but stopped short of saying her daughter was a call girl.
Friends began to avoid me and rumours started to circulate. On 3rd January 2013 I was told by a friend that Eleanor was going round telling people I had raped her, tortured her and didn't let her escape from my flat. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing.
On 4th January I wrote to Eleanor and told her to stop spreading lies or I would report her for harassment. I also called her father to explain the situation (since his wife had contacted me days earlier) although there was no answer so I left a voicemail.
That evening I went to the police station to report Eleanor for harassment. But instead of taking the report the police told me that Eleanor had been to the police station an hour before I had arrived and alleged I raped her. I was arrested and taken into custody.
During my police interview it was alleged that I waterboarded and tortured Eleanor, as well as raping her. It was absurd. However at this stage I no evidence to prove my innocence so it was actually very scary. I did not sleep for weeks, smoked like a chimney and lost a lot of weight.
By the end of February 2013 Ann Summers had given me a copy of the CCTV that showed Eleanor and I shopping for £340 of sex toys the morning after the alleged rape. Not only that but friends provided text messages that showed she told them she had "huge fun together" and that she complained about me rejecting her.
The police dropped the case, please see their reasons here: https://www.economou.legal/2013/02/nfa-no-further-action.html
But they weren't interested in prosecuting Eleanor for lying. They just shrugged their shoulders as if it was nothing and said "these things happen".
Unfortunately Eleanor continued to go round and tell people for months and months that she had been raped. My life continued to be a nightmare. I had people contacting me telling me about all these things she was saying about me. Rape allegations never go away. Especially if you are arrested. "That's the guy who was arrested for rape," people will always say.
Was I going to live with these ongoing accusations? No way.
I decided the only way to clear my name was to prosecute Eleanor myself, through a private prosecution.
I hired a team of specialist lawyers and in August 2013 we took the CCTV and text message evidence, as well as other evidence and placed this evidence into court. Eleanor was issued with a summons.
This is when things got even weirder. Instead of getting his daughter a lawyer David de Freitas wrote to the police to try to have me arrested for "harassment"…. He was complaining about my court case being “harassment”, even though it was quite literally my lawyers asking a court to consider evidence.
I wanted a judge and a jury to see the evidence, which would lead to a verdict in my favour, so that I could prove my innocence, and get on with my life. But according to her father, that process was "harassment". Although in reality, it was me who was being harassed, for months on end, with the false accusations.
Mr de Freitas is equally guilty of spreading harmful misinformation around. He has told the world in his press campaign (and continues to do so) that Eleanor was prosecuted on the back of "no evidence" which will make real rape victims scared of coming forward thinking they could be prosecuted if their story is inconsistent. It is very important that people know there was a mountain of evidence against Eleanor and even two of her own doctors said she was fit to stand trial. It was a rare thing to have such a prosecution, because of the amount of evidence.
Some important facts:
Statement of Director of Public Prosecutions: https://blog.cps.gov.uk/2014/12/statement-from-the-director-of-public-prosecutions-on-eleanor-de-freitas.html
Statement of Attorney General: https://www.gov.uk/government/news/no-independent-inquiry-into-the-prosecution-of-eleanor-de-freitas
High Court: No failings on Eleanor de Freitas case. https://alexander-economou.docdroid.com/F59eyl5/2016331-permission-for-a-jr-refused-pdf#page=3
Police reasons for "no further action" for rape compliant: https://www.economou.legal/2013/02/nfa-no-further-action.html
Police pay me £10,000 in compensation https://www.economou.legal/2018/08/metropolitan-police-pay-compensation.html
CCTV Evidence (Eleanor de Freitas buys sex toys with me day AFTER alleged attack): https://youtu.be/CefGQAMZnjU
Text message evidence: https://www.economou.legal/2017/09/text-message-evidence.html
Text message evidence 2: https://www.economou.legal/2013/01/more-text-message-evidence.html
Psychiatric Report of Eleanor de Freitas: https://www.docdroid.net/KdW0SvJ/edf-psychiatrtic-report-pdf
Coroner JR Submissions: https://www.docdroid.net/kZyWsgG/jr-coroner-submission-july-2015-pdf
Paragraph 7 of the judgement says: Since at least the 1998/99 tax year, David de Freitas has carried on business as a financial planner on a self-employed basis [despite 'cooking the books' for the last 23 years].
But how can this man be allowed to give financial planning advice to people, when he doesn't even pay his own taxes? In my opinion, this is further evidence that David de Freitas is a dishonest man, and wholly consistent with his ongoing misinformation campaign against me.
That judgement can be found here.
Eleanor
de Freitas was a liar. In 2013 she falsely accused me of rape. In 2012
she falsely accused her parents and landlords of abuse. Even her
parents have admitted the latter in court documents.
Both the Attorney General and the Director of Public Prosecutions have made public statements confirming that it was correct to prosecute Ms de Freitas for perverting the course of justice. The DPP noted that her prosecution relied on no less than 10 pieces of evidence. This included witness statements as well as CCTV and text messages, including one from Eleanor herself saying that she had "huge fun" with me, sent at the exact time she was supposedly raped.
For the record, I was never charged with rape. It was Eleanor who was charged with lying, not the other way around.
This month, some nine years after the allegations, an organisation called Centre for Women's Justice is using Ms de Freitas name to promote their cause, implying she was a victim. This organisation is run by Harriet Wistrich, a well-known feminist.
Last week Julie Bindel (Wistrich's partner) wrote an article which appeared in The Critic magazine stating:
"We live in a rape culture where legions of men feel entitled to commit sex crimes, secure in the knowledge that they will very probably get away with it.".
The final paragraph ends by saying the Eleanor de Freitas case is "one example" of this, thus implying I'm guilty of rape. This is not only untrue, it is seriously defamatory.
Even if they don't believe me, then surely they can recognise that both the Attorney General and DPP looked at the case and concluded there was strong evidence that Eleanor had lied? Even the coroner said there were many things on Eleanor's mind before she died. In a psychiatric report, Eleanor complains extensively about her family, not me.
The real truth is that Wistrich and Bindel are seriously misleading the public, and they know it. But they are not alone. There are other feminist organisations who follow their example.
Back in 2014, when this case hit the press, a huge number of women's groups jumped on the bandwagon, parading Eleanor's name as if she was a hero. I was alarmed because it implied I was a rapist, which is categorically untrue. I contacted the charities, offering to show them evidence that proved I was innocent.
Every one of these charities declined. They didn't want to know. They did not want to see the cctv, text messages or any other evidence. They were prepared to support Eleanor, unconditionally, without looking at the facts and continued to peddle false information.
When I read about the same charities making statements on other cases in the press, I just can't take them seriously. Because I know how they operate. The charities in question are:
Refuge, Justice For Women, Women Against Rape, Rape Crisis, Eaves, One in four, Nia, Liberty, Centre for Women Justice, Victim Support, Campaign to End Rape, End Violence against Women.
Below: Harriet Wistrich and Julie Bindel.
Last week, while going through the analytics for this blog, I noticed something unusual - someone had watched an online video before landing on my site. Curious about where the traffic was coming from, I decided to take a closer look.
The video turned out to feature Eleanor de Freitas, which, given the connection to my blog, wasn’t all that surprising.
It began with her sitting on a sofa, fully clothed, answering questions about her escorting.
The man filming introduces her by saying, "I am here today with the fabulous Marylyn, whom we have found on AdultWork.com."
The video then shows them having sex on camera for around 20 minutes. The title? "Posh British Escort Shagged for Cash."
In my December 2012 blog posts, I explained that I ended my relationship with Ms. de Freitas after discovering she was an escort, although I never told her that was the reason. She was extremely upset by the sudden rejection, which I didn’t properly explain at the time, so she was confused.
Shortly afterward, Eleanor messaged a friend saying she was devastated—claiming I had “fucked and chucked” her, and complained that I’d defriended her on Facebook and refused to speak to her. That emotional reaction became the spark for what followed.
In an attempt to justify her distress to others, she began making up stories that I had mistreated her. What started as vague allegations of “abuse” quickly escalated. Encouraged by friends who told her to go to the police, she made a formal allegation of rape ten days later.
For years, her family and several feminists—including Julie Bindel, Harriet Wistrich, and Lisa Avalos, have accused me of lying, insisting that I fabricated everything. Their claim is that Eleanor was distraught because she had been raped, which is simply not true.
The video is relevant because it directly supports the context I’ve described: Eleanor was working as an escort at the time, something she openly discusses in the footage. It confirms what I had privately discovered, before ending the relationship. She then got upset at this sudden rejection, and went onto falsely accuse me of rape.